I think that for a successful relationship people must be best friends, and truly want to support each other, if they are only really interested in what the other person can give them, and not in the person themselves, then it will not work, because one day you will find the person whom you really love just for the person that they are. I think that attentiveness and kindness is required, and having common goals to achieve in life, it may be that one person supports the others goals more, but as long as both are truly happy with this. I think that people should not let affection dry up in their relationship, and never go to sleep with bad feelings or thoughts about each other, any problems should be talked about and then kiss and make up:) so that you will start each day feeling happy, positive and motivated about your life. As for my vision to see a couple, it is especially based on the education that gave me my parents . For me , my woman will be my equal, wife and husband are the single whole. They should love , care and respect each other, being good friends, lovers, listeners and advisers to each others ! Two people who are in love with each other must do everything together without saying: it's your duty or this should do only woman or only man it is not questions that she made only the thankless tasks of a house, it is the thing which we can make for two. she should be able to show her feelings and be not afraid to live them out. affection,tenderness,attention all important things for a relation but from both sides and more for the woman she knows she is beloved. maybe i am looking for someone special or maybe it is to much what i ask but to answer your question about what would be my happiness so here you have my answer,is this to much??? to look forsomeone who truly knows what she wants.Someone whose eyes would spark when she sees me..Someone who would make me feel loved even without a touch..which is still very important for me though...who would understand me even without words..who would love, care and respect me the way I would feel for her..Someone I would give all my love and tenderness to..Someone who would cherish the feelings we have for each other and be able to comprehend my heart by his own..Someone who would appreciate my heart, my mind and my soul..my simply being myself,and who would care, having my heart in his hands I'm looking for a woman who knows what true love is about,a woman who isn't afraid to show her feelings;romantic, who loves being surprised..Someone daring and capable of doing some crazy things for the man she loves..Someone loving and caring, gentle and devoted, faithful and understanding.woman, best friend, lover. I mean each word what I've just said.I want a real and meaningful relationship and i hope it is not to much.